My daughter is 21 and expecting her first child. I put her on the pill once I knew/had a good idea she was sexually active. I lived with my dad from 16 on, he wouldn't let my aunt put me on the pill. I had no good role models for a healthy sex life(or any kind of healthy life). I ended up pregnant with my first child when I was 17. I went into pre-term labor at 25 weeks and he died 12 hours after he was born. I honestly wanted to be on the pill, but my father felt it was saying it was OK to have sex.
When the time came with my daughter I wanted to make sure she had all the info she needed. I was upfront with my son and daughter. Not only did I make sure they both knew all about std's, safe sex and abstinence they both also got protection, her the pill and condoms and him, condoms. They knew we were not saying OK go have fun, but that we wanted them safe and not having kids before they were ready.
I am proud of my son, in a time where using condoms is not "cool" he will come to me and be honest about it if he needs me to buy him some or let him have some money to get some.
My daughter is expecting her first child with her husband.